Thank you for your kind words! It's amazing how one connection leads to another - Dr. Mehmet Yildiz inspired me to start my writing journey on Substack, and through him, I'm connecting with wonderful people like you. That's what makes this community so special. Really happy to have you here!
Fear of sharing strong opinions was a big hurdle for me to overcome. I still feel like I’m coming out of my shell, as “what will they think?” is often a showstopper for my willingness to share.
I get it. It is a process, and once you get out of your shell, it feels scary but liberating at the same time. People always have opinions regardless of what you say. But the only way to attract the right people is to be authentic, and that involves sharing strong opinions.
I like how you model what you say in this article Jerry. This is my response to your CTA :)
I appreciate the call to not self censor strong opinions.
I read selling as serving the reader, and strong opinions in service of the reader is more respectful and helpful, compared to holding back the truth and value you could have offered.
Thanks for your comment, Wade. I agree with you. Being authentic pays off, creates stronger bonds with your audience, and leads to an engaged community. People seek real connections instead of generic content and rigid rules.
Really great actionable advice! For me it's just being authentic - honestly sharing your story will attract the people you want to work with and for whom your offer is meant. Just keep being you online and your tribe will find you.
Really good stuff here, even for folks under 50. Thanks for sharing. I love the part about not being afraid to state strong opinions. It's important to be authentic. That's how you cultivate the right audience for you. It also makes staying consistent with your content creation easier when you are being true to yourself.
You are right, Wendy. It is also about understanding human behavior and psychology. People don't like to be sold to but like to be educated. These simple tips help self-promotion without coming across as too salesy. It is a win-win situation for all.
Thank you Jerry! Nice to have support along the journey called life. I applaud you for helping others. I found you via Mehmet.
Thank you for your kind words! It's amazing how one connection leads to another - Dr. Mehmet Yildiz inspired me to start my writing journey on Substack, and through him, I'm connecting with wonderful people like you. That's what makes this community so special. Really happy to have you here!
Fear of sharing strong opinions was a big hurdle for me to overcome. I still feel like I’m coming out of my shell, as “what will they think?” is often a showstopper for my willingness to share.
I get it. It is a process, and once you get out of your shell, it feels scary but liberating at the same time. People always have opinions regardless of what you say. But the only way to attract the right people is to be authentic, and that involves sharing strong opinions.
I like how you model what you say in this article Jerry. This is my response to your CTA :)
I appreciate the call to not self censor strong opinions.
I read selling as serving the reader, and strong opinions in service of the reader is more respectful and helpful, compared to holding back the truth and value you could have offered.
Resonates!
Thanks for your comment, Wade. I agree with you. Being authentic pays off, creates stronger bonds with your audience, and leads to an engaged community. People seek real connections instead of generic content and rigid rules.
Thank you. Great advice!
I appreciate your comment.
Really great actionable advice! For me it's just being authentic - honestly sharing your story will attract the people you want to work with and for whom your offer is meant. Just keep being you online and your tribe will find you.
I totally agree, Charlie! Your vibe will attract your tribe.
Such a great topic
I appreciate your comment, Ryan.
Nicely presented, and helpful. I must remind myself of the 'every day' bit.
When you do it regularly and intentionally, it becomes second nature.
And because as women we have been placed in continuous and diminished positions, i’ll add
“if you think you are promoting too much, you aren’t, that’s conditioning.”
That is so true, Michele, and I love that advice. Cheers.
Really good stuff here, even for folks under 50. Thanks for sharing. I love the part about not being afraid to state strong opinions. It's important to be authentic. That's how you cultivate the right audience for you. It also makes staying consistent with your content creation easier when you are being true to yourself.
You are so right about being authentic, Christos. It is not about growing the number of followers for its own sake but attracting the right people.
I appreciate your comment.
Thank you Jerry, these tips are exactly what I needed to read this morning. I appreciate your insight.
I appreciate your feedback, Eric.
Great tips. You are right about selling; it's got such a sleazy connotation.
You are right, Wendy. It is also about understanding human behavior and psychology. People don't like to be sold to but like to be educated. These simple tips help self-promotion without coming across as too salesy. It is a win-win situation for all.